My life has been an eclectic journey all leading and guiding me to where I am now.  My family patterns started out with parents that did not have emotional constructs on how to love me the way I needed to be loved. That propelled me on a lifelong path, one that awakened me to my own truths.  I did not feel loved nor did I feel I received the recognition I wanted and deserved. I learned that they were not capable of what I needed, and were not wired to provide what was vital in a healthy relationship. My early childhood experiences were a vehicle to studying relationships. I observed how other people reacted to each other, how they treated each other, and how they felt respect.

Travelling through two previous marriages, and a number of occupations opened my eyes to different parts of life. The journey propelled me to get my marketing degree fifteen years after high school, which started my path on personal development. I have studied personal development for one hour a day since 1989. Subsequently that motivated and boosted me into business development.

Throughout the process of self-discovery, I continued to look for ways to uncover and discover who Gary was. At that time, I shifted my priorities and went to massage school after 9/11. I realized there was more inside of me that I needed to share. I saw myself as a healer and teacher. During that period I worked through my ‘stuff’, which brought me to a place of love and enabled me to make a huge impact. I began to do massage for people with disabilities, one of the most fulfilling things I have done in my lifetime.

Inspirational messages have an optimsitic effect on life UpdatedUnfortunately after about four years the funding for that program was eliminated, taking away about 95% of my income and emotional support that I received from working with my clients and their families. That experience through me into a funk. So, I started sharing motivational and inspirational quotes with others on Twitter to selfishly lift myself up.  People started responding and RT-ing, asking questions and making comments. There was a Universal message, “Okay, Gary you have your coaching certificate for ten years. This is your vehicle to coach.” I saw that experience as a positive opportunity since every single day people were remarking about my tweets. They would tell me how the message lifted them, and how it had an affirming, optimistic effect on their life. From that I experienced tremendous growth on Twitter, touching lives every day, in some way, in a very positive way.

How can I help you sort through your experiences, to find how to shift those things that happened, and not dwell in the ‘poo’ and start looking for the ‘pony’ in all of it . . . and, create happy rides.

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Go-Givers Sell More

by Gary Loper on October 11, 2016


The book, Go-Givers Sell More, written by Bob Burg and John David Mann is the follow up story to The Go-Giver. The underlying theme in the story is: “It’s not about you, It’s about Them!” Bob and John craftfully bring the lessons of The Five Laws of Stratospheric Success into real life.  They challenge the way sales people view every conventional sale techniques, from prospecting to closing.

Not only will applying these lessons change your sales results, they will crossover to dramatically change all other aspects of your life. In some manner we are all selling ourselves 24/7. Living by these laws will allow your authentic self to always be available. I cannot think of a time when living from that place will not bring abundance to your business, personal and spiritual life.

GGSM_CoverGo-Givers Sell More illustrates real life examples of how others have used the Go-Giver Philosophy, and how it positively impacted their business. One of my favorite stories was about a group of people who were all unemployed and looking for work. One member shared the Go-Giver principles with the group, and they all changed their focus from self-interest to everyone searching for employment opportunities for everyone else in the group. And, they accomplished that and then some!

Zig Ziglar stated “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want”.

Go-Givers Sell More is your road map, sales or business plan to fulfill your dreams by helping others.

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Yes! Energy Makes Life More Livable

October 5, 2016

There are some individuals who cannot say ‘yes’ to anything without repeatedly questioning their lives. Some have been doing it for so long that it feels unnatural not to issue a poll on even the smallest decision. As a result, what they see as slow, methodical, decision making is actually costing them opportunities and financial […]

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A Selfish Act That Positively Impacted Thousands of Lives

September 29, 2016

At all times my focus has been about Building Better Relationships, and that starts with yourself. When you build a good relationship with yourself, you can Build Better Relationships with your partner, your family, your community, your business, and beyond. Throughout the years, I have focused on growth and expansion. Collectively I have taken all […]

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Automation in Today’s Times

September 23, 2016

How can automation be done in today’s times? Blend the leverage of technology. Here is how it came about: When I first started on Twitter it was a little hard for me to press the ‘enter’ button when I was promoting my own products and services. Self-promotion created anxiety. Even though I knew people ‘clicked […]

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Moving Beyond 140 Characters

September 14, 2016

Twitter’s platform is a valuable tool for relationship building when built with a ‘know, like and trust’ consciousness. Once you establish that rapport, doors open to create a strong foundation in relationships. Here is an example of a conversation that extended beyond Twitter: Congratulations on your awakening to a bigger life and purpose. It seems […]

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What Are Your Goals On Twitter?

September 8, 2016

Once a new follower asked me what I thought was a simple question: “What are your goals on Twitter?”  And, I replied: “Many goals – inspire & pos impact lives of 1M, work w/train 250K to build better relationships on & off line & more.”  Without hesitation those words flowed off my fingertips, and out […]

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Certainty and Confidence, Part 2

September 2, 2016

To build my daily certainty and confidence, I began writing every day in my gratitude journal. I heard this suggestion from Oprah, probably back in the 80’s when there was a big push for gratitude journals. At first I resisted it, thinking I was well centered. Then, at some point, I was gifted a beautiful, […]

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Certainty and Confidence, Part 1

August 24, 2016

Before you can build with certainty and confidence, you need to recognize what your self-perception, self-esteem or even your thoughts are on failure. One of the things that is powerful is to look at how to redefine failure. For example, in my circumstance, there were things in my personal relationship with my parents that were […]

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